Spend a Couple Minutes »Leigh Ledare: You Are Nothing To Me. You Are Like Air

leigh ledare rivington armsYou might remember Leigh Ledare from his book, Pretend You're Actually Alive, recommended right here on Brix Picks. Now you can see his solo show of new work at Rivington Arms.

A continuation of his complex (to say the least) relationship with his mother, Tina, his work is still unnerving, risque, and even funny at times. In the back room runs a video of his mother's home made, unedited spanking movie she made with friends. People generally seemed squeamish in the face of the pornish goings on, but there are some priceless and funny moments too. His photos also seem to have more whimsy than before.

We went, braving a “scene” for the opening night and it was absolutely packed, so yay Leigh! But the space is small, so it made it difficult to looks at most of the work with any inspection. The gallery doesn't have hours posted on their site, but common gallery hours probably apply, so head over during the day when things are likely to be much less intensely crowded.

And since you only have one more day to shop there, I am including the Target Bodega pop up shops with this entry. In fact, you can make a day of it and go to Leigh's show then head right next door to the Target Bowery location.

Cute Sigerson Morrison shoes, some decent clothes (though nothing swayed me to buy) and a really tempting plethora of beauty products, there's a lot for the ladies here, but don't expect a mirror (the one major complaint I kept hearing) and the dressing room lines can be a headache. Don't totally overlook the home goods either. The ten dollar towels are really plush and soft.

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Posted on September 15, 2008

Spend a Couple Hours »Bingo

old lady bingoMy office hosted a charity Bingo Night and we ended up having way more fun that expected. There's something exciting about simple games of chance, even though I have the worst luck in them.

Bingo has caught on as a bar game too, particularly in my neighborhood of Greenpoint, where both Black Rabbit and The Mark Bar host events. I've never made it to the Mark Bar one, and would be a bit scared considering all the jock/sleaze men my friends have had to fend off there, but we did unwittingly walk in on a rambunctious evening it play at Black Rabbit.

Hosted by Bobby Tisdale, who is now officially the kind of famous person I see the most of (use to be various members of The State). You may know him if you ever made it to the fab (but now defunct) Invite Them Up or in a bit part as a factory worker in Junebug. Drunk on power and beer, he holds court wittily with prizes like the shirt off his back or a personal massage from him.

Other NYC bars that love the bingo: Lips, Pete's Candy Store, Sweet Ups, Brandy's Piano Bar, and Professor Thom's.

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Recipes »Pork Chops with Sage and Lemon Breadcrumbs

pork chops with sage breadcrumbTangy and hearty, this Pork Chops with Sage and Lemon Breadcrumbs from Real Simple is one of the best pork recipes I've tried in a while. The pork chop is basically universally known as a difficult thing to prepare. They can often be dry and bland, but the rich sauce and cheese solve that problem.

Good Eats devoted an entire show to the notoriously difficult cut, which once according to Alton Brown pork once was “king of meat in this country and the richer you were the higher off the animal you ate. And since that pork chop came from the loin or back, you're technically eating high on the hog. Of course, firing up a pork chop today is kind of risky business, you know. That's because the modern American hog is like a supermodel—it's lean and clean and potentially as dry as a James Bond martini”.

I suggest if you're interested in the episode and more pork chop facts, see this site which has the transcripts and photos but you don't have to hear his annoying?voice!

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Laughs »Breakdancing Baby

baby break dance I'm not sure if I've ever told you this story, but the chances are high. Back in the day of long ago, my sister and I took break dancing lessons. Yes, that's right. And like most activities that require a combination of physical prowess and coordination, I was absolutely terrible, even by little kid standards.

I remember on the last day we all got in a circle to demonstrate our new skills. I opted for the only thing I thought I could do rather well (ask me to demonstrate and I think you'll see that I thought wrong) – that move we professionals call The Arm Wave. Everyone was really polite, though I don't recall any sense of accomplishment.

All I can say is that in some way I am glad this baby wasn't around that day to show me up, but in some ways I wish he was because it would be awesome to see a break dancing baby in person.

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TV Shows »Five Days

five days hboBy the side of the road a mother and her two kids stop to get flowers from a truck. In a blink of the eye, the mother disappears and the children wander off on their own. This is the chilling premise of Five Days, an HBO/BBC collaboration mini series. The following days follow not only the investigation into what happened but the personal lives of each and every person affected by the tragedy.

While Jim and I could have forgone the weepy Enya type music by Magnus Fiennes and Heidrun Bjornsdottir which is almost always played during scenes of someone sobbing (such obvious heart string pulling scenes just aren't necessary with writing and acting this good) there's little else to complain about in this somber story.

At five hours, it's a commitment to watch, but if you are interested in elevating from the cursory and repetitive crime procedurals of Law and Order, Criminal Intent, etc, etc but still find the genre interesting, it's worth your time.

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Web Sites »Pandora Radio

pandora radioGod, you've got to love obsessed people, especially when their preoccupations result in something as magically wonderful as Pandora Radio. It's an on line station where they pick a variety of music based on your tastes. And it's not just the typical or always what you'd expect, in fact they went about the research in a highly scientific way:

“we set out to capture the essence of music at the most fundamental level. We ended up assembling literally hundreds of musical attributes or “genes” into a very large Music Genome. Taken together these genes capture the unique and magical musical identity of a song?we've carefully listened to the songs of tens of thousands of different artists – ranging from popular to obscure – and analyzed the musical qualities of each song one attribute at a time. This work continues each and every day?quot;

That's dedication and I should shake the hands of Tim Westergren and his team for their work. The site introduces me to something new every day, like Spirogyra, Fever Tree and Paul Parrish (now I just have to get my hands on this rainbow colored album of his).

There are some limitations. You can only fast forward so many songs within a play list within an hour, and often times the site itself has has technical difficulties when I've tried to log on. I also stubbornly refuse to accept the truth that The Eagles are somewhat like my beloved Fleetwood Mac but I am not surprised to find that very little in this world is like Nick Cave as much as the man himself (by the way have you gotten your tickets for his Oct 4th show??).

Seriously take some time enjoying getting your horizons broadened by this site. Plus, it works at offices that don't allow streaming media, so use it liberally at work to drown out any body else's ipod that you may not want to hear. Pandora Radio makes me wish I had nothing but idle computer time on my hands.

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Drinks »Decibel Sake Bar

decibel sake barNearly hidden from view, down a steep and narrow flight of steps lurks Decibel Sake Bar, a low lit sake destination. The space is small with few tables, so groups of six or more could get a bit crowded here. There is no standing room once inside, so you must make it past the keeper of the rope before you're admitted. Thankfully our group got there early enough to be allowed in an managed to grab a much coveted table. By the time we left, hours and hours later, the line went out the door.

The space is filled with dark corners and odd details. For example, our table had a pit in the middle of it with a huge metal fish and dull spike hanging that would sometimes twirl around and get near our eyes (until a kind waiter fixed it). I am sure there is a functional reason for this table decoration but we were having such a fun time gabbing that we really didn't even question it. With the graffiti walls, dark shadows, and constant murmur – it feels like a secret meeting spot. And in some ways it is. Despite the line, Decibel's popularity is due to word of mouth more than hype.

Renowned for an extensive sake menu, which is a pretty intimidating two page tome of unknown wonders. Happily Jim and I went with that new old standby for us, the excellent Wakatake. We also branched out an each tried a glass of other kinds, but because a bottle had already been consumed, I'm afraid I can't recall what their names. If you were more serious minded about it though, an intensive crash course in sake could be acquired here.

Don't fear if you end up here and are not a huge sake fan. There are a few beers to choose from and cocktails too. My friends can recommend the sake-tini and the kamikaze. There is also a great lineup if foods for nourishment. We shared some edamame, rice crackers, Okonomiyaki (vegetable pancake with bonito flakes) – I've had this dish before at the nearby and delicious Otafuku), but this experience was unique. The heat of the pancake was making the bonito flakes move around, giving the thrilling illusion that it was alive? Spooky! Wasabi Shumai were our last and best dish, piping hot and full of that wasabi kick, this is one I'd repeat indefinitely on future visits. I have been wanting to go here for years and the experience was all I could ask for.
And thanks, Sarah for the lovely photos!

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Style Icons: Male »Eugene Souleiman

Eugene Souleiman Lately I have started to be a little more inventive with my hair. It's long, it's straight and I don't do a whole lot with it. But with fashion week abuzz and photos of fabulous hair creations abounding online, it seems to be time. But I really wish I had a genius like Eugene Souleiman to assist me. Favoring the dramatic and innovative, he usually works in a team with make up artist Pat McGrath who is called “the most influential make-up artist in the world” by Vogue magazine. A favorite of designers including Hussein Chalayan, not a single major magazine has not had his hand in the hair styling. View some of his handwork here and here.

If you want to be a house hold name in hair, you can go commercial and produce an infinite number of products and define a classic cut like Vidal Sassoon, or you cry and create babe hair on reality TV like Jonathan Antin. If you want the respect of the entire fashion industry, be credited with starting trends and win the British Fashion Awards “Fashion Creator” award you need merely be Eugene Souleiman.
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Books »Deadly Innocence

deadly innocenceDeadly Innocence is my first non-publicly accepted foray into reading true crime. Sure I've done In Cold Blood, but that's a masterwork by Capote and I plowed through Helter Skelter, but really, who hasn't. Deadly Innocence one is more mass market paperback and the crime it documents is truly, truly heinous. Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka murdered several young girls after days of torture. One of their victims was Karla's younger sister, Tammy. It was a crime that horrified Ontario, Canada and the world. It was most disturbing because the monsters looked to be like any other young newlywed couple.

This book, for the most part is riveting because instead of focusing on the details of the crimes themselves, the story of Karla and Paul is told in fascinating detail by those that were close to them. Their friends reveal what it was like to know someone teetering on the edge, but still not know exactly what was going on. To read their friend's recounting of the darker and more normal side: eerie conversations, shocking party behavior, strange arguments, and less unusual side?like obsessions with Gordon Gekko and the pathetic attempts by Paul to start a rap career, are like reading the most spellbinding gossip. To say it's an enjoyable read is not quite accurate and a bit tasteless, but it is impossible to put down?for the first few hundred pages.

I want emphatically recommend that once the court case happens and the details of the crimes are brought to light, you stop reading. These two horrid people recorded their actions and reading about it is really disturbing and sickening. It really shook me up and messed up my day and I feel I would have been better off not having read it. So, seriously, once the video tapes come out as evidence, you read at your own risk. Until that point, seriously compelling stuff.

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Movies »Memories of Murder

memories of murder bong joon-ho Memories of Murder, a serial killer procedural unlike any you've seen, received world wide release (it played at BAM last year), was the number one film in South Korea and won the country's Grand Bell Award for best picture.

Based on the true crimes that took place between 1986 and 1991 in Korea, the film depicts a police force that is ignorant, brutal, and totally unequipped to handle such a difficult case. The crime scenes are chaotically compromised and the suspects are tortured into false confessions. It's particularly shocking to watch in this day and age, when everyone is a back seat detective and is aware of basic procedures thanks to forensics on TV.

The case's main detective, Park Do-Mang goes head to head with his partner, Suh Tae-Yoon, a more educated and less backwards young detective from Seoul who comes to help the investigation. Do-Mang claims to be able to see if someone is lying just by looking into their eyes, sicks his uneducated sadistic assistant on suspects and even consults a shaman before believing in any of Tea-Yoon's big city modern methods. But even those modern methods are nearly pointless due to the?country's very limited technological advances (at one point they have to send DNA to America for analysis).

Their views shift however in the course of a failed, sad, and infuriating investigation where after every step they take foreword to catching the murderer they take two steps back. As much as the detectives are ill prepared to face off against such a heinous offender, and their bumbling makes you angry, they truly do want to do the right to thing and find the guilty man. Unfortunately in real life and the film they never did.

It's a haunting film and a really interesting one that is well acted and shot beautifully. The opening sequence of an over saturated sky and field that you learn is a crime scene is particularly memorable. The films unique combination of humor and gravity is critically praised. The balance is subtle and masterfully pulled off by Bong and the result is an extraordinary film that revitalizes a washed up genre.

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