Books »Forever

forever judy blumeFor a lot of girls in 1975 and since, Judy Blume's Forever has been a shocking introduction to the world of teen sex. Seriously controversial at the time for it's blunt and realistic views and is still (surprise, surprise in this conservative climate) a target for censors. Which is why it was funny, as Jezebel pointed out, that Kathy Lee Gifford recently asked if Blume felt out of place in the fast paced world of more sexually explicit teen stuff. Ha! I am sure Gossip Girl is filled with torrid lust, but I doubt it gets as truthful and unglamorous as talking about how bad the first time can be, periods getting in the way, and a boy who calls his penis Ralph (this nickname in the book resulted in a major decline in the name being used in real life).

I actually never read it growing up. I was a Freckle Juice then later Just as Long as We're Together girl but reading Forever as an adult is kind of a nostalgic trip anyway. Blume wisely writes the book from the young soon to no longer be a virgin, Katherine's point of view and voice. So it's naive and artless, but sincere. The lack of literary flare also makes it a kind of abstract too.

I am bummed out that the cover has changed to the typical boring modern norm (corbis stock photo, blah blah) instead of the original, Kotex ad looking fresh faced girl inside of a golden locket.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Movies »Ladies and Gentlemen, The Fabulous Stains

ladies and gentlemen the fabulous stainsAfter reading my review of Foxes, a coworker recommended a lost gem called Ladies and Gentlemen The Fabulous Stains, a long out of print cult movie about a group of teenage girl punk rockers. It was notoriously hard to find a copy and that made me even more determined to see it. Fortunately my wait was not long as a couple weeks ago, I found out it was being released on DVD.

The elements are all there and the movie is worth a look as an artifact of all sorts of?cool. Paul Simonon from The Clash, ex-Sex Pistols Steve Jones and Paul Cook make appearances. But the star is Diane Lane who is tiny and gorgeous as an orphan who happens to be in the right place at the right time with the right new reporter there to document her and becomes a sensation with an unrealistically meteoric rise and fall and rise with her band The Stains (Laura Dern is her guitarist).

With a punky skunk hairdo, see through clothing, and wild makeup, she's a regular riot grrl who connects with the youth of her day by spouting teenage angst. She's an existentialist, an activist, and a feminist in bright socks and high heels. Her brief lover is played by an unrecognisably young Ray Winstone, lead singer of the Looters, clearly based on the Clash.

Unfortunate, then that it's so poorly paced and directed by ladies man Lou Adler. Audiences, whose negative reaction caused the film to be shelved before wide release and writer Nancy Dowd who used a pseudonym because she was unhappy with the final cut would agree. Still, there's a reason it's gained a cult following as a relic of the riot grrrl punk movement with some totally awesome style. I can't imagine any girl who saw this growing up on Z Channel or Showtime, where it would randomly pop up, wasn't inspired to dye her hair and start a band.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Recipes »Citrus Salmon with Avacado Salad

citrus salmon and avocado saladIt's taken awhile to convince Jim of the wonders of salmon but this light, airy recipe, that gains it's citrus flavor from a bit of grapefruit helped me to do so. The Real Simple recipe pairs the fish with a watercress salad but we opted to also add in an avocado salad which worked really well too.

The avocado salad comes from One Spice, Two Spice a book from the people behind the popular NYC restaurant, Tabla. I found it on Fresh Direct, where the Tabla chefs also have some microwavable dishes available.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Laughs »Jersey Girl Says What the F

jersey girl says fuckFrom Funny or Die, this little video is about a girl from Jersey girl saying “what the f…” in different situations (waitress forgot her vodka and red bull, when she can't open a starburst, when she's out of hard Mike's, etc). I don't know, I think it's pretty funny.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Places to Visit »The Gardens at The Snug Harbor Cultural Center

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totally sweet zoo to the Sung Harbor Cultural Center, Staten Island is actually a great place for day trips with quirky, neat little spots. Snug Harbor, for instance is somewhat odd, it feels like a idyllic gated off corner of the past, kind of Twilight Zone-y. We spent a good part of the day last weekend in the complexes many gardens and took more photos of flowers that you could possibly be interested in.

There is a classic greenhouse, a row of beautiful 1880 town homes now used for artist residencies, a healing garden that stands as a living memorial to 9/11, an herb, white, perennial, and potager gardens, a secret garden that looks like a castle but as far as their gardens go, the scholar Chinese garden is the most impressive and the only of its kind in the united states.

We plan to return on a less outdoorsy day to explore the rest of this 83 acre spot that includes a a glass house, a children's museum, a maritime collection, a model barn and farm and a playhouse.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Desserts »Gray Salt Thins

gray salt thinsMy friends Shaun's boss is so nice, he sent him a box of fancy chocolates from the road. And Shaun is so nice, he opened it up and shared the contents with us. When the box of Gray Salt Thins from Fran's Chocolates was revealed, we all collectively freaked out.

They were as delicious as we imagined, with a nice salt (gray salt, from Brittany, no less) grit to them. Reminding me very much of that totally awesome treasure, the Bacon Bar from Vosges, with it's salty sweetness, only this one can be enjoyed by vegetarians as well.

Based out of Seattle, Fran Bigelow, the glowing and friendly looking chocolatier behind the brand, opened a dessert shop back in 1982 and has been expanding since then with new products. And though I've yet to find a place in the city that sells her products, her online shop is always an option.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Restaurants »Snack

snack restaurant nycWith Jim and I now within walking distance for work lunch meet ups, we're lucky to have the neighborhood favorite, Snack as the in between point. I've been once before, and liked it, but this time I ordered all the right things and loved it. You know you're making a right menu choice when the waiter gets ultra excited about it.?In this case he was?an adorable and friendly gay boy, the kind who makes you think to yourself, “man, I really hope his parents were cool and not total dicks when he came out of the closet.”

The lamb sandwich was the item he was so thrilled about and it was?worth the praise. Many people must be aware of its greatness too because at least three came in to order it to go. It was rich and flavorful and big enough to split. We also dived into the cold appetizer platter with a very smoky eggplant dip, hummus, and my favorite thing of all time, taramasalata. All were excellent and the accompanying pita was warm and soft.

It's a minuscule place, so getting one of their four table requires amazing luck or going at lightly off hours. During those quieter times, I can see the appeal of hanging around for a while, getting fat on more and more pita as the afternoon fades.

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Posted on September 29, 2008

Drinks »The Stoned Crow

the stoned crow nycWhile the front bar of The Stoned Crow looks like any around NYU and the large back room is very college dorm in its decor with walls filled with magazine pages, Fear and Loathing posters and even chains of red Christmas lights dangling about, it's location, off the beaten path of the heart of NYU drunkery and some great food and drinks makes it absolutely perfect for certain occasions.

For example, have you ever had to organize a big group of an uncertain number, some of which want to eat, some who only want to grab a drink? Tall order, right? Not too many places can satisfy without giving up something in the deal. But here, the price is right (after a long night we each only owed thirty dollars), there is Sixpoint on tap and it's included in their happy hour (a dollar off), and the burgers, from Jaime Saucedo who once worked at Corner Bistro are actually really tasty. No one that stands in line for that classic spot though seems to know this fact because the place didn't really fill up until after ten and even then, just barely.

When lots of bars can barely sit a couple, let alone a group, this is a rare find in the city and the fact that the food isn't terrible at all and the crowd isn't horrible makes it even more impressive.

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Posted on September 22, 2008

Style Icons: Female »Luella Bartley

It Girl of London Fashion

I love love love London fashion week. It’s always crazier and brighter and quirkier than anywhere else and there’s always stuff I covet like a little Gollum. Already, the first day, the tweed, neon, printed, ladylike collection by Luella Bartley has really lifted my spirits and I want every single piece.

Even the setting, Hyde Park’s Crystal Palace is perfect because nothing makes a neon orange veil pop like a vista of green leaves. Of her daring and amazing color choices she said ” I wanted color, but in a sort of sick way. When I saw it all lined up, I thought, Ew! Can we do this?”

Luella is at British It girl. Her husband is fashion photographer David Sims, Kate Moss and Sienna Miller are her buddies, and she once edited British Vogue (which by the by has a fantastic Karen Elson fiery gold cover this month) with pale blond hair and those adorable whisper eyebrows and freckles that go with it.

She’s a bit less known here in the states despite a cute Target collection from a couple years back, but this collection is so stunning that I feel like her fan club can only grow and grow.

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Posted on September 22, 2008

Style Icons: Male »David Foster Wallace

david foster wallaceIt was such sad day when the brilliant voice of David Foster Wallace was silenced last Saturday. Simply saying that we've lost one of our generations greatest writers seems far too mild. You know what I mean if you've committed to the experience of Infinite Jest, a book that you don't merely read, but breathe for months – I?had dreams that constantly took place in the underground halls of Enfield Tennis Academy.

When I finished it, I found myself baffled that one human being was capable of such a large scale opus that was so touching, gripping, sad, and funny. His talent blew my mind and shook my world and I am really, really sad that he unfairly decided to take his own life and took all that talent and all those ideas with him. It is rumored that he had been working on another long project before he died that will now likely never be read.

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Posted on September 22, 2008