Movies »Lives of Others

the lives of othersThe Lives of Others was as highly praised a movie to come out of 2007. All my friends and family loved it and with that kind of build up I half expected to be a little disappointed – but director Florian Maria Georg Christian Graf Henckel von Donnersmarck, helming his first feature film, does not fail to impress.

Set in 1984 in East Germany, the plot involves the surveillance of a playwright and his actress girlfriend by the Stasi, the country's feared secret police. It's an interesting time in recent history, especially for those of us that grew up as kids knowing vaguely about the wall that stood between East and West Germany, but never having had any real knowledge or understanding of what it might have been like to live there.

This totalitarian environment that runs on fear and eventually breaks down all love and and trust between its citizens is heart breaking. This is not a movie that makes you cry, but one that you feel broken apart by the unfairness of the world. It's hard to imagine (though perhaps less so in the age of the Patriot Act) what you would do under such circumstances, how far you would push against the powerful to think freely and save the people you care about.

The acting here is superb and understated, particularly by the late Ulrich M?he who plays a Stasi agent who undergoes an unexpected change of heart. Curiously, M?he claims his own life mirrors that of one of the films' characters; he thought that his own wife of several years had been informing on him to the Stasi – and while she won a lawsuit preventing him from making that allegation in print, records show he may have been right.

Sebastian Koch, who reminds me very much of Jeroen Krabb? from the Fourth Man, and the stunning Martina Gedeck are also fabulous here. The cinematography manages to be rich while working in a monochromatic range with occassional pops of burnt warm tones. It's a film well deserving of its many awards and great acclaim – but it's not melodramatic or flashy, only steady, sophisticated and haunting.

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Posted on November 24, 2008

Laughs »Ricky Gervais Out of England

ricky gervais hbo out of englandFilmed in Madison Square Garden, Ricky Gervais' stand up comedy special, Out of England, begins with Elvis like fanfare: his name in giant lights, pyrotechnics, a crown, and a velvet cape. It quickly turns less extravagant as his sips on a Fosters (a large can he points out, in case people watching think he's a dwarf) and begins borderline offensive jokes about cancer and obesity. He manages to never quite cross the line and I found myself laughing at things that are usually off limits.

That's part of the undeniable charm of Ricky Gervais, on one side he is witty and almost philosophical – a man intrigued by the world around him and dismayed by the idiocy within it. On the other hand, he can just seem like a complete asshole, and not just to play a part. Both personas are on display here as he jokes equally about alternatives for anal sex and the logistics of Humpty Dumpty.

Actually, his surprisingly less off color jokes, mostly to do with nursery rhymes (in a very non Andrew Dice Clay way) and animal facts were some of the best part of the show.

As a wildly successful television star (if at this point you still haven't seen the original version of The Office, I won't tell anyone if you promise to just quietly rent them immediately) he manages to make the leap to stand up pretty well. I thought it usually went the other way. If you're a fan, this special is a must see. If you're not a fan, I hope you don't offend too easily. It airs again tonight on HBO 2 at 10:00 and, if I know HBO quite a few more times after that.

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Spend a Couple Minutes »Casa Magazines

casa magazinesA couple weeks ago I promised to tell you about Casa Magazines, the spot in the city to find foreign and rare magazines. I went myself this time to get the (uber tame – what was everyone freaking out about?) Lily Cole French Playboy. I was surprised to find the space so cramped any tiny considering all the good things you can find here. It's a bit hard to browse through, but the guy at the counter magically seems to know where everything is and points to it non chalantly after our own failed search.

I'm not sure of their hours, they actually have a pretty low profile and it's hard to find information about them, but we went after work and it was still open at 7pm. It remains a well kept secret among New Yorkers that are seeking out particular publications and like the charm of a clearly independent shop.

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Style Icons: Female »Michelle Obama

A First Lady to be Proud Of

In a political environment where wasteful spending on appearances is common, it’s refreshing to have a (soon to be) first lady that is not only fashionable but frugal too (ok, those earrings are an exception, but at least a classy sparkly exception). In the face of the public, she’s been stunning in J Crew (the easy flattering yellow number she wore on Leno), Narciso Rodriguez (the red and black acceptance speech number, that I happened to adore despite a general uproar from some people), the $150 dress from White House, Black Market, and Thakoon – that’s right, move over and wedding suits for aunts! Our new fist lady wears Thakoon!

I think it’s safe to say not only will our generation finally have a leader that we can believe in but an articulate, strong and stylish woman with a great smile (don’t they always seem to be genuinely be enjoying each other’s company?) right next to him.

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Hunks »John Hodgman

john hodgmanNot too long ago I recommended the extremely funny almanac of fictitious facts, The Areas of My Expertise, which focuses mainly on hobos and presidents with hooks for hands. The follow up book, which I'm anxiously waiting to buy (used, from Amazon's wonderful buy new and used program, of course), More Information Than You Require, was released in October, which, to my joy, has meant that Mr. Hodgman's appearances on the book promotion circuit have become increasingly frequent.

My mother gleefully reported that at a recent book signing walkie-talkies were employed for a Q & A where he turned his back to the audience and would only answer queries that terminated with the word “over”. Oh, and if you didn't specify who you wanted your book made out to, Hodgman's default inscription began with, “Dear eBay winner.”

He's attained what he refers to as Minor Celebrity Status, which means he now flies first class with people like Rachel Hunter and Peter Berg, mostly due to his iconic appearance as a “PC” in those Apple ads, which are a bit ironic not only because Hodgman himself has been a Macintosh nerd for decades, but because he's quickly becoming the cooler guy in the scenario.

I mean, I like Justin Long. I thought highly of him in the potentially good, but ultimately middling Jeepers Creepers, though I expected a bit more from him than just a spot in Drew Barrymore's pantheon of ex boy toys. But frankly, where Mr. Long seems like a funny kid who makes great appearances in dude-friendly comedies like Idiocracy and Dodgeball: A True Underdog Story, Hodgman, round faced and bespectacled, is a true modern wit — and someone who would probably hang around for a conversation about Pluto and Dune over a breakfast of fresh apple juice and croissants the next morning.

Not only are his books hilarious, he's spectacular as the resident expert on The Daily Show — here's an amazing clip where he discusses his unproduced screenplay “The Rich Blonde Yachtsman Gets The Girl” and suggests that perhaps reparations are owed to the upper class. As you can no doubt see, he's a wonderful story teller with a balance of nerdiness and heart that reminds me a bit of the tremendous wobbly hearted British comedian Daniel Kitson — and Hodgman's contributions to NPR's top show, This American Life, are priceless.

Sadly all this new found semi fame means that I'll probably never get to experience one of his Little Gray Book Lectures that he once hosted in my own back yard — but, with any luck, I'll be able to see him November 21st at the Apple Store!

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Books »She’s Come Undone

she's come undone wally lamb After tremendously enjoying The Corrections and The Road, I've finally decided (much like the rest of the world) to give in to the will of Oprah, at least when it comes to her reading suggestions. Wally Lamb's She's Come Undone certainly doesn't seem like my cup of tea, and it turns out it's not — but I'm still recommending it because if the Lamb's prose can get me through 450 pages of the kind of book I wouldn't normally read or like, it would be fantastic for those of you out there that really like epic coming of age stories.

It follows the life of poor Dolores from young to middle age as pretty much everything awful that can happen in life does; sometimes more than once. Rape, divorce (twice), mental illness (twice), death (more than twice), secrets, abuse, disappointment, loneliness, obesity, failure, and even AIDS; one begins to wonder what else this girl can possibly endure as the highly symbolic (e.g., a fat girl has thing for beached whales) tale unfolds. But somehow, Lamb manages to save it from melodrama.

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Movies »Down by Law

down by lawIt's been a Jim Jarmuschy week for me; not only did I see him on the street talking on his cell phone, hoping we wouldn't bother him, but I've been digging back into his early black and white work with Stranger Than Paradise and Down By Law. Both deal with similar themes: miscommunication, a stranger in a strange land, people forced together who would normally interact… and while Jim (my husband) is a bigger fan of Stranger (which is highly recommendable), I've always loved Down By Law the most.

The film's opening shots of early morning New Orleans streets, photographed beautifully by his long time DP Robby Muller, set against Tom Waits's Jockey Full of Bourbon is timeless and evocative. Someone on The Sopranos team was clearly inspired by it when they pit together their own title sequence. Jarmusch is an influential guy. Watching his independent movies (independent in the way that used to mean something pretty great) awakens creative ambitions.

He's also just so cool, surrounded by cool people. Tom Waits is lean and all drunken charm as a misunderstood radio DJ railing against the world. Dreamy John Lurie is smooth and smirky as a pimp with big dreams. Even Roberto Benigni joins the cool crowd in Jarmusch's movies, his adorable and energetic performance almost compensates for the tedious clowning the star of Pinocchio would later become known for.

While watching the movie I could vividly imagine Lurie kicked back in suspenders watching the Academy Awards smiling and muttering “Jesus, Roberto” then laughing into his saxophone. Rounding out the hip cast are Ellen Barkin, looking as good as she ever has in a black slip, dripping mascara; and the infamous, possible “real” killer of Nancy Spungeon, Rockets Redglare.

Down By Law, like all of Jarmusch's films (which, I might add, are all worth a look), is slow and thoughtful — but it's also quite funny, with a lot of the laughs coming from Begnini's character, Roberto (“I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream!“); and the chemistry between these three dynamic actors is a delight to watch.

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Recipes »Lamb and Eggplant Ragu

lamb ragu home made cooking light Oh, yum. It's meals like this surprisingly healthy Lamb and Eggplant Ragu that makes chillier evenings a happy or at least tolerable time. Yes, that is a little pile of feta tempting you on top those curly noodles (the recipe calls for wheat, which lowers the calories and tastes just as good). The eggplant, carrot and makes the ragu sauce nice and hearty and the lamb gives it a unique flavor.

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Web Sites »Very Short List

very short list websiteVSL, or Very Short List is a “a collection of distinct, free, daily e-mails that each recommend one must–see gem a day.” Already I've put some interesting sounding books on my wish list: The Oxford Project, The Hellfire Clubs, and Woman's World to name a few. It's also been an excellent reminder to dvr some upcoming shows like Summer Heights High (which you'll be reading about here soon) and this weeks best laugh: Ricky Gervais – Out of England.

Unlike a lot of weekly email services which seem to be more on the advertisement side of things, Very Short List seems to be genuine recommendations by intelligent people. They focus on “products that deserve attention but haven't already been subject to giant media pile-ons” meaning, there is a lot here to be discovered. And soon there will be even more with the addition of a Books, Food, and Kids section.

Thanks, Laura for the recommendation.

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Posted on November 17, 2008

Places to Visit »Rockland and Portland Maine

In Rockland, Maine were we had a room booked at the Berry Manor, which it turns out, will soon be featured in a Food Network Throwdown.
Famous for its homemade pies and the “pie ladies” we figured we were in for a treat and were not disappointed. The Berry Manor was large and charming, with just enough of that “bed and breakfast” appeal. Pies were available to eat at all hours of the day, in fact there were pies, ice cream and other pie toppings on hand at all times and they were deelicious!

Rockland is a small, walkable quiet town. There was plenty to see and eat
in our two days there and I'd go back anytime to explore more. We had one rainy cold Maine day that gave us a chance to visit the Farnsworth Museum. It's mainly themed towards Maine artists and art about Maine and New England but their collection is extensive and there were some awesome quilts, ship models and folk art exhibits.

Our big Splurge in Rockland was dinner at Primo. We were just planning to go for $1 oysters at the bar but our host at the Berry Manor was nice enough to get us a reservation. Even though it was a little bit of an unexpected hike from the Inn and a little more upscale than I was expecting (I don't think anyone expected us to walk there) it was well worth it! It's one of those seasonal restaurants that uses local produce and meats, a really great treat to go to outside of NY. We tried a few small dishes and asked if the chef would make us a vegetarian entree of her choosing (the chef is Melissa Kelly) and the dish was incredible, a mix of fresh veggies and spices.

Next, as we made our way south to Portland we stopped at the resort town of Boothbay Harbor.? It was a little more touristy then charming but there is a nice bridge across a small inlet with views of the boats and shops.?We stopped for a bit to indulge in a New England tradition –
candlepin bowling! It was pretty fun, something that apparently is only available in the northeast and Canada (myself being a southerner I was a whole new thing for me).

Then we also went to another Flay throwdown establishment, the Lobster Dock. Apparently Flay went head to head with their famous crab cakes.?The owner liked Flay's recipe (the main difference being the addition of a fried artichoke heart) so much he put it on the menu full time!?So being the spectacle/food hounds we are we tried not only the lobster roll (we were on a 1 lobster roll a day schedule for a bit) we also had to try the crab cakes.?The crab were delicious but they were eclipsed by the lobster roll!?Truly the best one we've ever eaten.

Next we were on our way to Portland.?Portland's a really charming town and super easy to get around in.?Everything is basically in a big circle.?We started by checking out the B&B we were staying at, The West End Inn at which we had the safari room (rowr!) It was the perfect inn for a night or two in Portland.?You could walk pretty much everywhere, and it
was close to the water.

There are lots of really good restaurants in Portland, in fact it has the highest number of restaurants per capita then any North American city. ?br/>One of the best though has to be Fore Street.?They are an all-organic place near the water.?The menu is created each afternoon before they open based on what sort of local ingredients were available over the last few days.?We had some delicious wild Maine mushrooms and some excellent sauted squash.?The kitchen is open and in the middle of the restaurant which added a nice homeyness.

Another thing we noticed about the city was this it seemed to have a strong DIY element. There was a local craft fair going on that we went to with some really creative stuff for sale. We stopped by the booth from Ferdinand to check out their squirrely wares. Most of the rest of our time was spent walking around and taking in the small nooks of the city. Another thing that stands out in Portland is the availability of so many New England microbreweries. We had a few pints of pumpkin ale to herald in fall. ?br/>
We were sort of sad to have to leave and miss Gorgasaurus! (for tickets see Sid Baxter, no number)

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Posted on November 17, 2008