Songs »Adore

prince adorePrince has no trouble hiding his emotions in his music but Adore, a lesser known but thoroughly excellent passion ballad from ?a href=”http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sign_o'_the_Times_(album)” target=”_blank” title=”Wiki: Sign O The Times”>Sign O the Times' just goes beyond. It's his most sweaty browed, chest beating, all out on his knees, overcome, unhinged and overjoyed expression of L-O-V-E.

As he grows increasingly spastic in his declarations of adoration, he forcefully mutters, “Girl I ain't f***ing just for kicks, No!!” Probably not a line Patti LaBelle, whose album The Winner In You inspired Prince to write this soulful song, would sing, but it's the kind of fun-time raunch that makes Adore a true Prince masterpiece.

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Posted on February 9, 2009

Books »Please Don’t Promise Me Forever

please dont promise me foreverImagine this: It's 1976 and you're dating a man named Rick. He has a moustache and owns at least one reindeer sweater. High off of reading The Easter Parade and The Great Santini, he's all pumped up to write the next great American novel but, to make ends meet, he's currently working for Hallmark. He's been really cagey about his latest project, only revealing that this will be the first time Hermann Zapf's Crown font is used in a publication.

The fact is, things could be better between the two of you; he forgot your birthday… then your anniversary. Then there was that time he bit your head off on the car ride home for making fun of him during a game of Monopoly at a friend's house.

Now, imagine it's Valentine's Day and you're not expecting much – but Rick?urprises?ou. It turns out that book he was working on – it's all about you! And your relationship! Your eyes well up with tears of joy. Then, as you skim through, they become tears of something else. You discover that the book is full of lines like this: “Please don't get mad at me if I forget your birthday or some special day we share.”

And this: “Please don't expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.”

And there's even a photo depicting couples board?ame?ight paired with this text: “Please don't… make me look foolish in front of other people.”

I spotted this amazing treasure at Spoonbill and Sugartown and, of course, I had to buy it right away. Aside from the prose, the photographs are priceless – but even more priceless are the hand written annotations and underlined passages in my copy, beseeching the reader to re-read certain lines. It's out of print (as you might have imagined) but, as your faithful friend, I've digitally preserved this amazing book; every magical page can be viewed here.

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Movies »It Happened One Night

it happened one nightWhile Frank Capra might be best remembered for the feel good?holiday classic It's a Wonderful Life, I myself prefer the early screwball comedy It Happened One Night, a popular film that swept the Oscars but almost didn't happen. The production suffered a myriad of casting mishaps (Myrna Loy, Bette Davis, Carole Lombard, and Robert Montgomery all couldn't do the film, for various reasons), in fact both the porcelain Claudette Colbert and the rugged Clark Gable originally refused to star because they didn't like the script.

I can see why they might have been hesitant. It's a pretty straightforward plot that lacks the intricacies of a comedy like The Golddiggers of 1933 or The Women, but it's full of charm, in part due to the chemistry between the two leads. There's also a guy named called Shapely (which, coincidentally, is how he likes his women) who spouts all the film's best lines, lines like this: “When a cold mama gets hot, boy she sizzles – woo wee!”

Colbert plays the kind of rich brat who'd rather starve than eat raw vegetables trying to clandestinely travel from Miami to New York (by bus) to defy her father and marry an aviator he detests named King. Gable is an out of work, drunken journalist (he's also an expert at hitch hiking, dunking donuts, and giving piggy backs) who spots a headline grabbing story in the girl's journey and agrees to help her out on the condition that he gets an exclusive.

Colbert looks amazing in her few costume changes, both draped in an over-sized trench and elegant in a liquid white wedding gown with a flowered neckline and a long veil that looks great trailing behind her. Gable also caused some sartorial stir, according to a Hollywood anecdote, when he undressed for bed and was not wearing an undershirt — legend has it that undershirt sales plummeted by 75%.

Made over seventy years ago, there are bound to be some dated aspects. For example, her Colbert's father decides Gable is an okay guy and an ideal husband for his daughter after the suitor exclaims that she should be socked once a day, whether she deserves it of not. In another bit of arcane excitement, you'll learn what a aero-gyro is (SPOILER ALERT – it's got the body of an old plane and the propeller of a helicopter).

Still, just because it's of its time, that does not mean it needs to be remade; though I can easily imagine some moronic producer thinking this would be the perfect vehicle for true life rich girl Paris Hilton. And while that may seem like a pretty remote possibility, did you know that they're remaking Bonnie and Clyde with Hilary Duff right? Guess how Faye Dunaway feels about it?

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Spend a Couple Hours »Make Workshop

make workshopMake Workshops hosts a variety of craft classes throughout the year; you can learn everything from embroidery (which is the class I took) to screen printing, from sewing to wallpaper making. The classes are run in a wonderfully relaxed manner by the company's friendly founder, Diana Rupp and would make the perfect present for the girl you love (use their handy gift certificates) and are a great way teach yourself how to make a lovingly hand crafted gift.

Over the course of my two hour embroidery class I learned the basics of the craft and was enlightened in the mysterious ways of the needle and thread. I think I pretty much understand all I need to know to start devoting all of my free time to unraveling knots and making runny, back, fill and chain stitches – if I wanted to. Plus, after mastering a few basics, I now have the know-how to decipher the puzzling diagrams in the dozens of how-to books I've got lining my bookshelf.

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Laughs »Miss America Remix

luke boggia miss americaMy friend Luke was flown out to Las Vegas to watch Miss Indiana win the Miss America Pageant recently because of this hilarious video.

In it, he adds his own sensitive heart wrapped in purple glitter sweaters and rose petals touch to the classic pageant theme song.

Prompted by another friend that works at Myspace to enter the less than popular contest, our own Awesome Brother ended up winning and ended up blowing minds because they opted not to play it during commercial breaks.

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Posted on February 2, 2009

Spend a Couple Hours »Host a Soup Party

soup partySince the increasingly dreadful turn of economic events met the most freezing cold January in New York for years, the idea of a Soup Party has never been more apt. My very talented cook of a friend, Mike, whose influence often spills into these pages had the idea and has been hosting them nearly every Sunday (making it “Souper Sunday”) for several weeks now.

It's a great, heartening way to end the weekend with the best of company, a roaring fake fireplace on the TV, and yummy, warm-you-to-your-toes hot soup. His creations have run the gamut from mushroom in a clear broth, to a thick bread tomato, to a chicken sausage stew. This weekend we are going for an oyster golden bisque (which you'll be hearing about in detail soon enough if it's good).

Host your own Soup Party! It's an affordable way to feed a crowd and everyone pitches in with desserts and drinks.

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Posted on February 2, 2009

Movies »Manhattan Murder Mystery

manhattan murder mystery woody allen
Whether or not Woody Allen has permanently lost his touch is a topic of great debate and discussion. While I think that we can all basically agree that the hey day is over (Celebrity, Curse of the Jade Scorpion and the one with Debra Messing are far from great works), films like Deconstructing Harry, Sweet and Lowdown, and Match Point
make a strong case that he's still pretty good (sometimes); and there's one particular late-period movie that seems to have charmed everyone whose seen it and strangely, it's probably one of the least seen (well, except for Cassandra's Dream).

The movie is Manhattan Murder Mystery and the cast of old reliables like Diane Keaton, Alan Alda, Angelica Houston, and Allen himself seem to be having so much fun on screen that they're really a pleasure to watch. It's a classic re-tooling of a noir plot – the seemingly least capable people become involved in solving an increasingly complicated crime; a concept that worked wonders just a few years later when it propelled the plot of The Big Lebowski.

In this case, the amateur sleuth is an expectedly skittish Keaton, a woman feeling her late middle age creep and wondering if she and her husband (Allen) have become too dull and predictable. She's primed for rampant speculation when her neighbor's wife dies suddenly and (possibly) mysteriously; with the aid of an equally insecure and adventure craving Alda, she becomes embroiled in stake outs and vanishing corpses.

The hijinks that ensue in this succinct little thriller are pleasurable enough to satisfy viewers on both sides of the “Has Woody Allen become a total dud?” debate; the scene with a prerecorded message played to capture the killer had me laughing like it was Annie Hall. Plus, it's perfect for “family viewing” – you can watch it with parents and/or grandparents and they're almost guaranteed to love it.

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Posted on February 2, 2009

Places to Visit »Cave of the Winds

brittany hague michael hague cave of the windsThe Cave of the Winds is a major local attraction in Manitou, just outside my home town, but like last week's recommendation – The Manitou Cliff Dwellings, I hadn't been since I was a very young kid.

Discovered by two young brothers named John and George Pickett, who still get credit for the finding, the caves are massive and their position within the scenic mountains make this an impressive destination – especially for anyone that didn't grow up surrounded by mountains.

There are two tours available, we opted for the less freaky Discovery Tour – which is lit and takes about half the time of the pitch dark Lantern Tour. It costs about $18 and despite what the website says, in the winter the wait between tours can be more than thirty minutes. It's fine though, if you don't mind wandering a souvenir shop filled with rocks, gems, and fossils – perfect gifts for certain friends that take care of your cats.

Inside the caves, along with a few screaming kids and pregnant ladies unfairly dragged their by their husbands, you'll be greeted with other worldly geological beauty at every turn, a little cave full of bits of metal left by superstitious visitors in a bid to earn love luck, and a single spot that you can touch.

Your host is likely to be like ours, kind of young, highly goateed, but decent at memorizing the key points.

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Spend a Couple Minutes »Planet Money

npr planet moneyLast week I told you all about the enlightening This American Life episode The Giant Pool of Money. I though it was insightful, humorous, and invaluable in that it made me feel a bit more aware of what was really going on and why in this scary economic crisis.

It's made Jim and I into minor league arm chair economy nuts. I know, us(??!), more specifically, me (???!) – having long conversations about mortgages, hedge funds, etc.. it's a new world and there is no one else to guide you too through it than Alex Blumberg and Adam Davidson.

Almost daily they have updated pod casts called Planet Money (easier to find and navigate the downloads through itunes rather than the NPR site). I've begun listening to these brief segments often and it just goes to show that any subject can be interesting with the right teacher – and can any of us afford to remain completely in the dark now?

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Restaurants »Tomoe Sushi

tomoe sushiSure, Tomoe Sushi a bit pricier than most mediocre sushi spots and in this economy?well let's just say maybe there's a reason Jim and I have been able to get a lunch time table at the notoriously packed neighborhood favorite. A sushi lunch this fresh, this tasty and this unique is totally worth the 17.75, which to be fair is far less than most places will charge for sushi that makes you feel like you're treating yourself well.

We witnessed Philip Seymour Hoffman treating himself well the first time we ate here but grew much more interested in what was on our plate once we were quickly served. The California rolls are mammoth, the tuna is bright and delicious and the lunch plate offerings varies day to day based on what they can get freshest from the market It's made all the difference in making the tiny spot, with it's not unfriendly but certainly hurried service, the go to mecca for years for some of the city's best raw fish.

While I have ordered the lunch sushi both times. I enjoyed raw shrimp – a delicacy I haven't had before and can imagine a lesser chef could make too slimy instead of refreshing and a spectacular bit of my favorite fish to eat raw, mackerel. Jim goes for the maki combo and lavishes praise on it every time the subject comes up, a fairly rare thing for him to do concerning restaurants.

Of course, like anything popular, there are detractors, and the place to find them is on Chowhound among other foodies commenter spots, but I just have to disagree. Try it yourself and tell me I'm right.

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Posted on February 2, 2009