Web Sites »Sentimental Value

sentimental valuePeople's hearts are filled with love not only for one another, but for their most valued possessions. When we part with our objects, things can get emotional and these emotions are documented on the often hilarious blog Sentimental Value.

It was started by Emily Spivack, who does a great job of keeping it updated “as a way to collect some of the interesting stories about specific pieces of clothing and accessories I've discovered on Ebay.”

The stories range from funny:
I hate to let it go because it has great sentimental value; I was once levitated in it in a magic act

To the kind of amazing:
There is a funny story about this: the owner of the purse was with her husband stationed in Hong Kong, Thailand and other parts of Asia in the 1950s and into the early 1960s. At one time, there was a large python living under their house, and so they had someone come in to remove and dispose of it. They were asked if they wanted to use the snake skin for anything and my client said yes, she wanted some shoes and a handbag made for her. THIS is the bag! And the heels that match it I have listed separately

To the amazingly historical:
It is stated on the box lid in very faint pencil that the dress was worn by her at King George V's funeral

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Places to Visit »Sunset Tower

sunset towersThe Sunset Tower is an old Hollywood landmark that has housed Elizabeth Taylor, Bugsy Siegel, Marilyn Monroe and Howard Hughes. It's storied and romantic history made it a perfect spot for my sister to celebrate her engagement to her soon-to-be hubby. I drooled over her photos of balcony taken French press breakfasts under blue California skies.

The building itself, which was built in 1921 by Leland A Bryant, is an art deco marvel, once one of the most trendy and glamorous places in town. It fell into disrepair in the 70s and 80s until it was saved from destruction and turned into the St James Club; then it became the Argyle before reclaiming its original name and roots as Sunset Tower.

The spa looks heavenly and I'd do just about anything to be lounging in a cabana by their pool on Valentine's Day.

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Spend a Couple Minutes »Babeland

babelandMy experience with adult stores which largely (well?completely, to be honest) had consisted of buying gag gifts for friends, can be summed up in just one phrase, “A sea of dirty sweatpants”. Needless to say, the desire to walk into another has never been an appealing prospect, no matter how adventurous I think I might want to get. It was with some trepidation then that I entered Babeland in Soho.

To my surprise – and joy – I found a very clean, cheerful, comfortable and discreet shop complete with a helpful staff that's not too helpful; they know better than to sneak up behind you and employ high pressure tactics to customers browsing butt beads and vibrators. I think you know me well enough to know that I'm not going to disclose my reasons for being there, but I can confidently say it was a pleasant shopping experience.

The shop also hosts a variety of unique classes like the art of the blow job and a butt sex brunch, oh my.?

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Drinks »Screaming Orgasm II

screaming orgasmIt would be difficult to accurately create a drink that truly represents a screaming orgasm because it would have to include one of the least popular ingredients in the bar keep's tool box (most bar tenders don't even bother stocking it at all), sweat.

But this version (which is called the Screaming Orgasm II – yes it's a sequel drink) tastes a lot like a drunken cherry which, come to think of it, isn't too far off theme.

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Desserts »Amaretti di Saronno

amaretti cookieWhen I walked into Rafettos on Houston to grab some fresh angel hair pasta (which would have been wonderful if I hadn't over cooked it), I had no idea that a basket of sweet nostalgia awaited me. I'm not sure why these Amaretti di Saronno cookies played such a large part in my childhood cookie memories, but I vividly recalled the crumbly almond flavor of the two tiny cookies the second I laid eyes on the intricate paper wrapping.

According the PR, their origins are quite romantic too:

According to the Amaretti di Saronno legend, almost three centuries ago, the Cardinal of Milan unexpectedly visited the town of Saronno in Italy. To honor him, two young lovers, Giuseppe and Osolina, quickly baked up a mixture of sugar, apricot kernels and egg whites, creating crisp, airy cookies with an unusual bittersweet flavor which they wrapped in pairs to symbolize their love.

The Cardinal was delighted and blessed the young couple, who married and lived happily ever after. Since 1718 this ancient and secret recipe has been preserved by the Lazzaroni family. Unwrap a legend and begin your own happy ending.

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Restaurants »One if by Land, Two if by Sea

One if by Land, Two if by Sea has long held the title of the most romantic restaurant in town, and it's a reputation they take very seriously, with a piano player to greet you and a single red rose and candle at every table. It's spared from clich? by the admittedly gorgeous d?cor that succeeds in an interesting pairing of old turn of the century charm of Aaron Burr's carriage home and modern romance. Lovely chandeliers hang in the main dining room, walls of old exposed brick are lit by candles, and portraits of American forefathers gaze at patrons in love.

We went for restaurant week as an early, recessiony Valentine's meal. Like most restaurant week menus, I didn't feel we got the best the chef had to offer as far as the main course, but we were totally taken with our appetizer: a buttery saffron orzo with pea shoots and duck confit and dessert: a chocolate cup cake with peanut butter ice cream (which it seems has been replaced with chocolate fondant according to the menu on their site). My main was the Pan Seared Fluke and Jim feasted on steak. Both were fine, but I would go for the famous Wellington if I were to come back and order from the regular menu. My drink, called a Swedish Massage was an unexpectedly delightful vodka martini with blue cheese olives and a splash of scotch.

It's clear from the moment you walk in why so many couples get engaged here, everyone seems to be glowing in the air of romance and the firelight. The only thing slightly cold you'll find here is the service; and no one is actually rude, just a bit aloof, but patrons didn't seem to care, happily basking in the atmosphere of perpetual lovelight.

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Style Icons: Female »Elizabeth Taylor

elizabeth taylorDespite her current feelings on matrimony, Elizabeth Taylor built a career playing romantic leads, made headlines with her romantic life and defined a kind of champagne and caviar 80s romance with those White Diamonds commercials that seemed have to run for decades, I guess they still bring her luck.

But that wasn't totally true, was it Elizabeth? The silver screen goddess with violet eyes once called, “a secret wrapped in an enigma inside a mystery” was married and divorced eight times and two of those were to Richard Burton, to whom that quote can be attributed.

While her main job these days is simply to remind us of golden ages past, her work is truly inspiring and exciting. My personal favorites are A Place in the Sun, where her dreamy frothy ball gowns inspire murder; her sultry and sad turn as Maggie in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof; her fiery divaesque hysterics in The Taming of the Shrew; but I most love her razor edged, forceful but vulnerable Oscar winning performance in Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf (the play I wrote a high school senior paper on).

And Jim also has a pretty major crush on the Liz of the late 60s.

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Style Icons: Male »John Lennon

john lennonI'm well aware that Yoko, the woman blamed for the inevitable break up the Beatles, is the butt of tons of jokes, and I know there's a lot of animosity towards her and her kind, but when I look at images like Annie Leibowitz's final photograph of she and John Lennon, I'm filled with a wistful love of love. Taken the same day he was murdered, Yoko said this of the photo:

“Why wasn't I told that John will be taken away from me soon after, without even a chance for me to say goodbye?” she says. “That's what I think about now when I see it.”

I look upon this picture as one of the most romantic images of our time. Lennon insisted that his wife be included in the picture, despite the fact that the magazine did not want her on the cover; in light of the tragic event later that day, the editors relented and chose to respect his wishes.

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Hunks »Mr Darcy

mr darcyMr Darcy is a cherished figure in romantic literature. Created by the great Jane Austen in the oft-adapted and swooned-over Pride and Prejudice (which was voted the second best British book ever, right behind the Lord of the Rings, in a 2003 BBC poll), the character has for decades inspired in novelists and romantic girls alike a longing for aloof men with guarded hearts of gold and deep reservoirs of passion not easily tapped.

While Colin Firth will always perfectly embody Lord Darcy for me, I've heard that Matthew Macfadyen (who I adored as the simpering, fey and degenerate Sir Felix in The Way We Live Now) is pretty terrific in the recent Keira Knightley adaptation that I've yet to see; however, it was the dashing Laurence Olivier that first gave the character on-screen life in the classic 1940 film written in part by Brave New World author Aldous Huxley.

But not everyone is pining for the man; in this article by Cherry Potter she scolds us and calls him “the epitome of the dominant patriarchal male.”

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Albums »The Way I See It

raphael saadiq the way i see itI was hard pressed to correctly identify the decade that Raphael Saadiq's The Way I See It was released. From the Motown-era cover art, to the album's sound, this is a retro project through and through; so much so that, like me, you might wonder why these tracks had been gathering dust since the 60s in some deep Detroit archive before realizing (courtesy of the Jay-Z guest appearance) that this record was produced just last year.

Maybe it's this old fashioned sound that's kept the album off any major charts and the radio, which is a total shame because it's easy to see how the good-natured raciness of Let's Take a Walk, the updated AM gold Never Give You Up, or the best song of the album, Love That Girl, could easily have become big radio hits and acquainted a new generation with this classic R&B sound.

The subject of these simple, soulful songs is love: the loss of it (the poignant Big Easy), living in the midst of it (and riding each other) in Oh Girl, the avoidance of it (100 Yard Dash) and its complications (Staying in love). It's perfect for grabbing a partner and dancing to or, if no one is at hand, to daydreaming to like teenagers I imagine teenagers would have done back in 1964.

You may not be too surprised to learn that Saadiq comes from Tony! Toni! Tone! because, if you recall, their hit single, If I Had No Loot, was totally excellent.

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