Places to Visit »Grey Towers Mansion Grounds

grey towers mansionLast fall, friends and I strolled the grounds of the magnificent French inspired Grey Towers in Pennsylvania, not too far from previously recommended Castle Antiques. The home will not be open for tours until the end of May, but the grounds, which is all we were able to see at the time, are alone worth the trip.

Here's the castle's story (from the official site):

“Grey Towers was the home of Gifford Pinchot, first Chief of the US Forest Service and Pennsylvania Governor for two terms. Grey Towers was completed in 1886 by Gifford's father, James Pinchot, a wealthy wallpaper merchant. Civic minded and a supporter of the arts, James and his wife, Mary, connected themselves with many influential people, among them Richard Morris Hunt, a leading architect of the era. Hunt designed their summer home to utilize both local materials and reflect the French heritage of the Pinchot family, who first settled in Milford in 1818. For two decades the Pinchots and their children enjoyed numerous summers at Grey Towers, entertaining guests for afternoon teas and dinner parties. Here James, disturbed by destructive logging practices then prevalent in the country, encouraged his eldest son, Gifford Pinchot, to consider a career in forestry.”

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Posted on April 13, 2009

Places to Visit »The Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium

larry cat in space vanderbilt mansionOf all the Long Island Gold Coast mansions, The Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium probably has the most to offer visitors. We began with what is unlikely to be their best planetarium show, but certainly a bizarre and funny one (my whole body was shaking with laughter when it began) “Larry Cat in Space“. A slideshow more than a planetarium show that features a fat tabby with a shockingly Jack Nicholson-like voice who tells his not very informative tale of becoming a stowaway to the moon or 'meeewn', as the cats call it.

It really actually goes beyond non-informative to misleading in its claim that there are underground space stations on the moon and that making a cat-sized space suit is the kind of thing a man can whip up in about ten minutes. See, Larry Cat is trying to get to his owner, Diana Sandberg (a lesbian, I would guess, based on the clothes he stows away among), whom he has an almost uncomfortable affection for. The planetarium also offers laser light shows (of course, the 10pm show features the music of Pink Floyd) and some other options that might be a tad more enthralling for people over the age of 3.

A short distance away is the mansion itself, a sprawling beauty with contradictorary but harmonious styles of architecture. A house tour is an extra $5 (a fee two pain in the ass women “were not prepared for!”) and a kindly old gentlemen does the honors of taking you through the gorgeous rooms that the Vanderbilts spent their summers in.?My favorites were the master walk-in closet, the wife's giant bathroom, the wild trophy room dedicated to the son who died young that includes a stuffed alligator, the elegant dining room with a hand carved wood ceiling, and the organ that boasts pipes all the way down to the basement hidden behind a medieval tapestry. There is still plenty of fabulous things to see, though even if you don't want to take the time or money for the nearly hour long tour.

There's an old timey car in the basement, a hall with taxidermy wild animals, a petrified mummy, an exquisite Moroccan garden room, a dream-worthy library, and the biggest specimen of a whale shark around. Two amazing rooms are full of marine and wildlife specimens too, including tons of birds, octopuses, and giant lobsters.

Our growling tummies didn't allow us to to visit the Marine Museum, so we'll have to go back for that.

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Posted on April 6, 2009

Places to Visit »Americas Stonehenge

alpacas americas stonehengeThere are many mysteries surrounding New Hampshire's favorite roadside attraction, “America's Stonehenge“.?Is it as their many brochure's found all over New England rest stops will lead you to believe? Even the owners themselves don't want to use strong words to describe what it is and what it isn't.?In fact, this is the wording on their website: “America's Stonehenge is most likely the oldest man-made construction in the United States (over 4000 years old)”.?

“Is most likely!” Whoa! you have me sold! 4000 year old ruins maybe made by the same Celtic druids that once built England's Stonehenge! I'm there!?Or wait, maybe there were built by the vikings.. well OK, that's still interesting.?Err wait, no maybe they were built by the Native Americans… oh, you don't see that everyday, i'm still down.?Umm OK OK, maybe its the rules of a 1890's farm house and the sacrificial alter is just where they made soap, not killed people… but did I mention we have Alpacas?

WHAT??? Award winning alpacas.?And although these adorable south American animals have nothing to do with the actual “attraction” there (what ever that is) they are a reason to stop by.?In fact they sell them, and their wool, and magnets with their pictures on them.?I mean what else is there to do in southern New Hampshire but pay 4 bucks to enter a classic American roadside attraction stuck in the middle of the suburbs and pet their alpacas. Oh yeah and buy crystals and new age books at their gift shop. In the end, it's 4 dollars well spent.?Even if you still leave scratching your head asking what the hell was that.

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Posted on March 30, 2009

Places to Visit »Santa Barbara

astrid californiaThanks again to Astrid for helping me out this (and last) week!

Leaving Las Vegas we took the interstate west through the Nevada desert on our way to Santa Barbara.?Its a long dusty drive with scenic mountains in the background and random resorts and trailer parks sprouting up here and there.?Other then viewing the desert, when driving from Las Vegas to LA there are a few notable tourist trapish excursions.?Most of these are located in the town of Baker which is a famous pit stop for the Vegas-la travel set.?

First up was the Mad Greek which reminds me of a continuation on the whole My Big Fat Greek Wedding aesthetic.?There was literally hundreds and hundreds of pieces of Greek pride and flair.?The portions were huge and we decided to split a Greek salad with pita and that was plenty for the both of us.?Definitely a great hangover-over as you lurch your way back from Vegas to civilization.

Afterward we pulled into the famous Alien Jerky located nearby to pick up some flavored jerky.?They had the standard teryiaki/pepper varieties then things like salmon, buffalo, and whiskey jerky.

Stumbling around the first night, we stepped into this bustling but quaint local seafood restaurant, the Hungry Cat.?The kitchen is directly across from the bar where we sat so we got to see them prepare all this delicious looking fresh seafood.?The also had an impressive list of specialty cocktails and wines.?The food, drinks, coupled with the vibe (being California, you have to throw in the vibe) made it our favorite surprise of the city.?We'd highly recommend scouting it out if you're ever in town.

Almost as fun as tasting the wines in the Santa Ynez area is just driving around the rolling hills of vineyards.?Everything was so green and lush and the climate was warm and breezy.?As you're driving around you see that there are wineries everywhere, dozens and dozens.?We did a little research on different places and one that kept coming up was the Zoca Mesa winery.?It's a fairly secluded place that has a couple of hiking trails scenic picnic nooks and tables.?We did a tasting there and I was really impressed.?I had never considered myself much of a Shiraz person but theirs was just excellent.?Light and peppery and we ended up getting a whole magnum to share with friends we'd see later on our trip.

We spent some time researching what the best restaurant was in Santa Barbara and everything seemed to point to Bouchon.?So we went and were not disappointed.?The setting was reminiscent of a?quaint farmhouse and you felt relaxed and welcomed the minute you walked in.? The food was really great.?All fresh ingredients from local farms.?They even whipped up a special vegetarian entree for us with broccoli rabe and risotto that was creative and delicious.

One of the best things about the visit had to be the service.?The waiter treated us like old friends and not only gave us some free Humboldt fog (a delicious goat cheese made with vegetable ash) he also gave us a shortlist of the best wineries in the city.

Never to miss out on spectacle, we swung by what is believe to be the largest fig tree in the country, Santa Barbara's Moreton Bay Fig Tree.?Its massive!

One notable pit-stop was the Santa Barbara Brewhouse.?It was a true local joint, tucked away from the main strip of the town.?The place had a great neighborhood feel and brewed some really great beer.?Our favorite had to be the habanero infused pilsner.?It had a kick!?They served it in a small glass but the bartender said that people order it by the picture.?I wish I could have brought some home.

The Carr Winery is located in the city of Santa Barbara and we stopped by there at our Bouchon waiter's suggestion.?It was an old warehouse space converted into a tasting room and barrel storage facility.?We got a tasting and right away knew we'd be getting at least a bottle or two.?We tried a few super pinot noir's but one nice surprise was this Shiraz made by the assistant wine maker.?We also got a wine where there was only 800 cases made and not available anywhere else.?Would have to say it was probably the most consistent winery we visited there and will probably go back when we stop by Santa Barbara again.

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Posted on March 23, 2009

Places to Visit »Las Vegas

vegas lips kissersAstrid and Marcus have been welcome contributers to my travel section. This week they give us all the details of a Tom Jones filled Vegas extravaganza:

We decided to go to Vegas on a whim when I saw that Ton Jones was performing at the MGM. We got a great discount (the thing about Vegas is they just want to get you there, so the flights and rooms are super cheap especially in the off seasons). We stayed at the MGM, in a sweet suite off a very The Shining type hallway– it was clean and fairly quiet, we had no problem finding our way around and even though the reviews are mixed I thought the staff could not be more helpful.

The Tom Jones show was on our first night, and he was amazing! Not as spry as I remember him being but the man can still move like no other human being and he sang as well as always.

After the show we quickly realized that our Vegas food options were limited to celebrity chef restaurants or McDonalds but for about the same price minus the cocktails – So we chose celebrity chefs. We had lunch at Wolfgang Pucks, and a lovely dinner at Nob Hill, they made us a polenta dish and some other veggie plates off their menu!

From our table we were able to spy the private high roller tables, which actually looked dingy and depressing- (our waiter claimed Gnarls Barkley had just been there the night before but it was hard to believe anyone would want to spend time or money there).

We spent the next day walking the Vegas strip, the weather was perfect
and it was a great way to get out and see a lot of the casinos and other
Vegas oddities! About halfway down the strip we took a cocktail break at the Wynn, definitely my favorite hotel/casino, I'd totally stay there the next time. They pump scented air into the casino!!! We had mezcal and margaritas at an outdoor garden waterfall..it was deelicious.

That evening at Bills Casino we saw Big Elvis, a performance we both agreed was the most genuine heart warming thing we witnessed in Vegas. Big Elvis sings for free nightly at the Bills Casino bar and he has a following of devoted locals that make sure to be at each show. When Big Elvis asked for volunteers Marcus was one of the gentleman picked to rock out on an inflatable guitar..all the guys were winners receiving a Big Elvis cd and certificate!

We did gamble a little, cards and slots and even won enough to make a profit. You also get to enjoy plenty of free drinks even if you're just playing the nickel machines, which is a treat.

From Vegas we drove through the desert to Santa Barbara which was the
opposite experience of smoky, sweat pant wearing Vegas. I personally
love Vegas for its crazy kitschy architecture and rat pack nostalgia but
it's not for everyone and I was definitely ready for some fresh air and
greener landscapes!

(Stay tuned for those adventures soon!)

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Posted on March 16, 2009

Places to Visit »Sheepshead Bay

brennan and carr roast beefThere are far edges of this large borough that most people I know have never traveled to. We just spent the afternoon in one of them: Sheepshead Bay, a tight community and coastal area that feels old fashioned and has a few special spots to visit.

First, we headed to the Imax at UA Sheepshead Bay Stadium, a place where we could see Watchmen (I'll tell you more about that next week) in loud, huge, high definition in a totally un-sold out theater. Sure, the place suffers from the same defects as any other, namely: the public can be annoying (and stupid – Note: do NOT bring your very young children to see Watchmen – they will see penises and arms being sawed off!) and the prices are mind numbing, but if you're willing to make the drive or the trek via subway, you're guaranteed a good seat even on opening weekend.

Other enticements include Jordan's Lobster Dock across the street, where we partook in some fresh steamers and butter after the show to discuss the movie. It's a shack of a place that smells like brine and is crowded with kids in basketball shorts. There's nothing fancy to it but I love the idea of ending a movie with a dozen clams. They also have a retail shop where you can pick up, among other things, live lobster to take home for dinner. Which we would have done if there weren't other stops to see before we left the area.

Brennan and Carr was next on my tour and I found it as classically old Brooklyn as I expected from this Hungry Cabbie entry that first informed me of the famous roast beef restaurant years ago. You can order from the concise menu outside or you can take a seat in the cozy, fire-placed back room where local boys serve you in black bow ties and white waiter jackets. Your fellow patrons will mostly be locals who know the value of a simple juicy roast beef on a bun.

The last stop on my list was unfortunately closed when we drove by it. Kiev Bakery is a local pastry shop, but even though i wasn't able to try their sweets, just a glance in the window was well worth it. They specialize in doll cakes and I don't just mean a measly 12 inch doll. The ones in the window were those three foot tall ones, that can open their eyes and toddlers take for walks. Next to them sat huge over the top wedding cakes and I can only apologize for not getting my camera out fast enough to snap a photo.

Also closed, though permanently is Lundy's – a huge (it was once the largest restaurant in the country) famous seafood restaurant that was housed in a great looking building that will become a gourmet market in the near future.

In warmer weather the foot bridges along the water would be a nice place to walk off all the clams and beef.

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Posted on March 9, 2009

Places to Visit »Paris

Paris is a spectacular shopping town and in our short trip we limited our scope to two main areas: the Marais and Saint Germaine. After a dreamy and hazy and cold walk over the famed Le Pont Alexander III bridge we came to the neighborhood of Saint Germain and the inspiring Bon Marche. Filled with the latest in clothes and accessories in beautiful colors, it's a must stop for fashion minded visitors. There were also many great children's shops in the area like the elegant Bonpoint and the much more affordable Du Pareil au meme.

For fashion forward adults, I highly recommend the concept store Colette, where the latest and most avant garde pieces are on display. Much like Dover Street Market in London, it's more like a museum of the latest style than a store. Here you can also find some wild and fun gray nail polish from Uslu airlines brand.

La Marais was my most favorite neighborhood we visited with quaint winding streets, beautiful architecture and laid back atmosphere. It's is the center of the gay city presence (and you know they always live in the city's best neighborhoods) and historically been the center of the Jewish community in Paris. We found some exceptional (and pricey) children's boutiques including Fifi de Vem, Baby Beluga and Bon Ton which are both within walking distance to the world's most beautiful square Place des Vosges.

For adults with a penchant for the avant garde, the Tsumori Chisato shop is wort a visit and I took advantage of a major sale at Surface to Air where I purchased an awesome full skirt that has had people asking me (for the first time and likely the last) if I happen to be wearing Balenciaga, ha!

Our Hotel Monna Lisa was nice enough with little in way of frills except for an amazing shower with six shower heads. It was dreamy and made the five euro cost of water a bit easier to bear. Located near the Arche de Triomphe, it wasn't perfectly centrally located for our purposes, but would not be a terrible place to stay in general. The subway system is flawless, though make sure you keep your stub as enforcers periodically ask for them to insure you've paid to ride (one local girl did not and was brought to tears when issued a ticket). I also learned that you have to press a button for some of the train doors to open which will help you from looking like a fool like I did.

Other good tips are to bring a phone card – we had to call via a service using our credit cards and the cost was phenomenal and bring a watch because no one in Paris will be as concerned with the time like an uptight New Yorker on holiday.

Overall, Paris is exactly as you've heard – every corner offers more beauty but unlike you may have heard, I found everyone to be exceptionally nice and accommodating. Here are more photos.

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Posted on March 2, 2009

Places to Visit »London

notting hill londonOur main objective in London was to shop, and shop we did, starting with the famous Portobello Market in Notting Hill. It was a crowded stretch of road with vendors of all kinds, mot notably lots of cheap and trendy clothes (I finally found a plaid jacket inspired by Tokyo Drifter) and some good vintage once you cross under the bridge. Nearby children's clothing shops Stasi and Jigsaw were great for work. It's a lovely area to walk around with quaint buildings and antiques and fresh flowers peering out of windows.

Soho was much less quaint, a bustling center that reminded me of midtown and houses the colossal four story Topshop (soon to be causing mayhem in NYC). The place is a madhouse sea of intimidating head to toe trendy teens throwing hangers and grabbing sizes before you can reach for them. Not a spot for those prone to panic attacks, it is still worth a look for it's fun and exciting trends that are sold at comparatively reasonable prices.

For relative calm we headed to the exquisite concept store Dover Street Market, where even a pair of socks was out of my price range. Amazing designer clothing like Commes des Garcons and Manish Arora set among interesting displays of wax heads, neon tree branches, and giant plastic octopuses. It's more like a museum of avant garde design than a retail shop.

The next day got up early for the Brick Lane Market that reminded me of Brooklyn and bore great handmade t-shirts, spray painted shoes, beautiful people watching and excellent food (see restaurant picks). Nearby Beyond Retro, Shelf, Labour and Wait, Ella Doran and Mar Mar are worth visiting.

I really fell in love with London and hope to visit again when I can. Part of the magic was the comforts afforded by the great hotel No. 11 Cadogan Gardens in beautiful Chelsea and seeing my friend and her adorable baby again. It's the only city outside New York I could see myself living in.

Photos here.

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Posted on February 23, 2009

Places to Visit »Negril

Why do I mention it now?

Because wouldn't you rather be sipping mango daiguiris on a beach under the Jamaican sun right now?

What I said back on 2/6/06:

Although getting home through customs and baggage claim almost made me forget I had ever known happiness, Jim and I just got back from the most relaxing and beautiful places – Negril, Jamaica. After landing prepare yourself for an hour long white knuckled bus ride on a two lane highway through bustling non-tourist towns and ever changing tropical landscapes.

When we reached Negril we never left (although there are some day trips I would explore next time). We stayed at the wonderful Seasplash Resort which hit the perfect note between intimate boutique and resort hotel. The hotel restaurant, Norma's, is the best one on the seven mile beach directly outside the hotel. A dude named King hangs out if there is anything you want to buy … wink.

In fact many people hang out on the beach pushing everything from sugar cane, to massage, to hash, to sex. Negril is not too built up yet as a tourist town, so it feels more serene than party time – although you do run into alot of vacationers from all over the world – half of which I always assume are pervy in some way from watching too many Real Sexes in the 90's.

The trip is affordable and sublime. The sand is soft, the water is clear, the sky is blue. I have never relaxed so much since I was in grade school.

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Posted on February 16, 2009

Places to Visit »Sunset Tower

sunset towersThe Sunset Tower is an old Hollywood landmark that has housed Elizabeth Taylor, Bugsy Siegel, Marilyn Monroe and Howard Hughes. It's storied and romantic history made it a perfect spot for my sister to celebrate her engagement to her soon-to-be hubby. I drooled over her photos of balcony taken French press breakfasts under blue California skies.

The building itself, which was built in 1921 by Leland A Bryant, is an art deco marvel, once one of the most trendy and glamorous places in town. It fell into disrepair in the 70s and 80s until it was saved from destruction and turned into the St James Club; then it became the Argyle before reclaiming its original name and roots as Sunset Tower.

The spa looks heavenly and I'd do just about anything to be lounging in a cabana by their pool on Valentine's Day.

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Posted on February 9, 2009